THE SECRET OF DIVINE ATTRACTION

Many of us want to know what the secret of attraction is.  Deepak Chopra says, “The secret to attraction is being yourself”.

Sadly, amazing people all over the planet, have collapsed expressing natural essence (or being attractive) with seeking/getting attention. The difference between attention and attraction, has nothing to do with our physical features – it has everything to do with who we are being.

In fact, seeking or getting attention is energetically a very masculine trait. It involves doing something with the intention getting something. And often we are willing to sacrifice our own joy or pleasure, because we will do just about anything necessary to get that man or woman. At the root of attention, or being someone who gets a lot of attention, is the desire to please someone else. It’s the dress we buy because we want men to think we are ‘hot’, the courses we take because we want to fix ourselves and the way we try to package our truth in tinkered responses so that our date will ask us out again. And by no means do I want to leave you with the impression that getting attention is “bad”. The intention here is for us to simply be clear that attention and attraction are different tools and know that each tool will have us produce a different results.

Seeking attention is what we do only when we are not using 100% of our own natural essence.

When being ourselves, standing in our natural essence, we are effortlessly attractive. Attraction in and of itself is divine and springs from our feminine energy. Attraction is all about being, being you. At the very heart of divine attraction and being deeply attractive is the courage to please ourselves first, and live a life aligned with our heart.

Attraction is the pink sparkly flower that I wear because I love it, even if people ask me all the time why I wear it. It’s the fact that you cry shamelessly sometimes just because something beautiful takes your breath away. It’s the way you talk too fast most of the time, or talk too slow or stutter… that Attraction is YOU.

What many of us don’t realize is that it is often those things that we think we need to hide or change that make us so attractive. Here’s the kicker, the more we hide, deny and pretend, the more weird we feel. That is the game of attention; and while yes there is excitement in that game, we will pull in people who also think they are weird and likely pretending as well. The more we own who we are, be ourselves, courageously radiate our natural essence –we transform beyond the cocoon of weird and emerge a butterfly with rare beauty. That is the game of attraction.

This is when we are care free and are most attractive long term.  This is where magic begins and where fairy tales jump off the page and become real life.

So no more hiding, if you are playing the game of divine attraction. This is it – because we know it is the ones who hide nothing, who win everything in the game of love.

Happy attracting!

“What you seek is seeking you” – Rumi

Love,

Renee