You’ve been dating for a while and things seem to be going pretty well. You love the same music, have similar interests, share important long term goals, and every time you are with him, it feels like heaven.
You’re not new to the dating scene, and you know you’re dating a good one… But how do you know if he’s the kind of guy that you can create EPICALLY ever after with?
It might sound kind of crazy, but do you know that most of the people I speak with still think that the “the spark” is the #1 thing that indicates when you’ve found “the one”. We feel that spark -that yummy, delicious sexual buzz, increase in heart rate and body temperature and think we can turn it into a relationship.
That spark may mean something sometimes, however, after working with hundreds of people, it’s been my observation that the spark really doesn’t mean too much of anything when it comes to creating EPIC, lasting relationships. At best all it indicates that there is mutual sexual attraction.
If we are really interested in creating EPIC or divine relationships it’s going to take so much more. EPIC love requires us to notice the signs and go where most other people creating relationships are way too afraid to do.
We need to go deeper, dig deeper, expect deeper and give deeper.
Every relationship is unique and you may or you may not notice other signs, however, if you are looking for a set of signs to assist you on your journey to EPIC love here are some of the most common signs:
- You love this person exactly as they are right now. Not who you want them to be someday.
- You feel and ARE even more energetic, vibrant, healthy and spiritually expanded.
- You feel like you have met this person before or perhaps even many times before.
- Your heart opens when they speak, it gets broken open often -but after each break, it is bigger and better.
- You envision creating a legacy with this person – one that you recognize is divine and acts as contribution to humanity.
- You want to tell all of your loved ones about this person and when you do, you share truthfully without intentional omission.
- You feel safe with this person and feel safe to communicate ANYTHING with this person.
- You choose consciously not to react out of fear or anger to get what you want from this person, instead you choose to act out of love and surrender to whatever the outcome may be.
- You have a deep yearning and strive to experience God (divine consciousness) through your partner sexually.
- You and this person are consciously and actively doing the work to ensure that you are both emotionally, physically, sexually and spiritually available and committed to spiritual union.
EPIC love, like many of life’s miracles is not something that is impossible to create. We just have to believe we are deserving, push ourselves beyond love’s comfort zone and notice the signs twinkling in the infinite sky of possibility.
With infinite love
Renee
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